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Dreaming of My Husband Leaving Me for a Man

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Dream from the mailbag: 

Hello,

I had a dream last nite that my husband left me for a man. Not only a man, but the most flamboyant kind. They were openly affectionate, even at my house and I had to tell him that it was unacceptable for his “lover” to be around our kids and for them to be affectionate in front of them. My kids were asking me questions and the longer the dream went on the more frustrated I got with the situation. I don’t know where this dream came from. I’ve had dreams of my husband leaving me for other women or just cheating, but never with a man. It made sick to my stomach and I couldn’t sleep.

Please help!!

Dream Decoded:

Thank you so much for sharing your dream with me. I will do my best to help you see perhaps something you didn’t before.

…my husband left me for a man. Not only a man, but the most flamboyant kind. They were openly affectionate, even at my house and I had to tell him that it was unacceptable for his “lover” to be around our kids and for them to be affectionate in front of them.

Sometimes when we dream of people doing strange or out of character things, we are dumbfounded as to what symbolism this sort of idea might be suggesting, but I think if we pull away from what you experienced at face value, we can see the underlying concerns being expressed. Is it possible that your husband has his attention on something you have concerns about? Perhaps you dreamed of him leaving you in the first place because you are sensing separation or a disconnect between you and your husband. He is doing something in front of everyone that you don’t approve of. This might relate to feminine qualities or behaviors that he has been acting on but have triggered something for you unconsciously regarding any blatant choices, actions and behaviors that you feel, underneath or deep down, to be unacceptable.

My kids were asking me questions and the longer the dream went on the more frustrated I got with the situation.

You feel out of control. Or at least, unable to manage the situation hence your frustration.It is as though, you see him doing something you don’t like and you don’t want him to do this around the kids. Perhaps this behavior is what you would consider to be on the fringe of society. The flamboyant gay lover is likely reflecting this activity, action or choice your husband enjoys that you object to.

I wonder if your physical reaction to this dream is related to your actual feelings about having to manage this situation at all. It seems as though you feel like you have to be the one to tell him what he is doing is wrong, as though it has never occurred to him before that it might not be alright with you. It is like a slap in the face, blatant disregard for your feelings whilst he parades around your house and kids pleasing himself and you are forced to confront him about it and then are left to answer all the questions when the kids come asking.

Look for a life situation that is being mirrored…

Hope this helps!

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6 thoughts on “Dreaming of My Husband Leaving Me for a Man

  1. I had a dream that my husband was kissing another man man what does that mean

    • Consider how it made you feel and how you responded to it whilst dreaming to find a clue as to the meaning of the kiss from your point of view. In a general sense, kissing is an intimate exchange between two people, this may represent a perception of personal conversation or close interaction perhaps with a male friend, where the idea is less sexual in nature, but more open communication if that make sense. I want to get across the idea that sometimes a kiss can be connection. And it doesn’t even have to be a person, it could be a connection to something you perceive as masculine that he might feel passionate about.

      Another avenue of consideration lies in the direction of identifying what your husband represent for you and how this situation may have sprung from a deep emotion experienced throughout the day.

      My wild guess, maybe you observed your husband being close to a brother or friend or even just an activity where you feel, however it made you feel in your dream.

      Hope this helps!
      dd

  2. Hi, I had a dream my husband was sitting down in a conversation with me telling me that he is leaving me. During the conversation he shows me the picture of the person he is leaving me for and its my sisters husband. I am not at all uncomfortable about this in my dream all I see myself bring across is the enormous amount of debt I am in since our marriage and I want him to know that he needs to help me pay for it. Firstly he acts all ignorant as if he was never aware of it until I name them one by one. I also mention to him that the house is still breing paid from his account so that is his responsibility.

    Maybe I should just mention that my husband is currently unemployed and I have been working endlessly and making debt to keep us afloat. It is as if I want him to realize that all this debt I am in is because of him.

    Hope you can help me

    • thank you for sharing your dream with me. Sounds like you have already solved things for yourself, however. So, I will only share a few things that come to my mind…
      Perhaps you are wondering if your financial situation is causing you to lose romantic feelings for your husband. Perhaps you were testing your own personality to see how you might respond in such a situation because you have been wondering this at times. And you just confirmed, in the dream, that you are more angry that he isn’t the breadwinner than you would be if he were to just up and leave you for someone else. besides, that would be cheaper for you anyway… the financial burden may be too great to bear and more actual-physical-evidence that he is helping and moving forward. Perhaps you fear he will leave you holding a mountain of debt… Sounds like you need to have a long hard talk and make some positive changes for the both of you.

      hope this helps
      dd

  3. Hi , I keep having different dreams of my husband leaving me or me finding out he is gay . In my most previous dream (last night) I dreamt that he had convinced me to go back home and a week later he tells me things aren’t going to work out that he is sorry and that he’s not in love with me but he still loves me and our kids. In the dream I some how find out he’s leaving me to pursue a relationship with another man. I don’t understand why I dream situations like this way to often. Currently we are living separate (6hours) away since we are relocating but he can’t move with us till he finds a job in the area . we see him every two weeks if we get lucky and he is very sad over our living situation since its been 2 months we have been living separate . I would really like to figure out why I dream what I dream. Every time I mention to him I had another “Gay” dream of him he says oh great another one. Lol help please

  4. Hi.. I had a dream that my husband plants something inside of me. I can feel that I am pregnant and when I try and take a photo of it it looks like a octopus or a creature of some sort. I tell my sister about it, what my husband did but it is as if she doesn’t believe me. At night it seems like my husband wants to remove it while I am sleeping. While I am sleeping I am trying to take photos so my sister can see what I was trying to tell her about this creature inside of me.
    What could it possible mean?

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