Dream from the mailbag:
I have lots of dreams that are scary, they aren’t nightmares but they include my marriage failing or my daughter being harmed. This one is the weirdest. And it was so very real when I was dreaming that when I woke up, I was actually angry at my husband.
Me and my husband are on this beach and we live in this beach house. And we don’t have our daughter so It’s just us married and all that and one night you have this party and Jim (my husband) had to run out to get more chips or snack stuff and I was in our room and one of his friends came in and we were just talking and everything and all of the sudden he leaned in and kissed me. I stopped him, and was like “I’m happily married” I was afraid to tell Jim so I didn’t and I was just trying to forget it. then a couple days later I was like we are missing 500$ from our safe so Jim said “I installed these security cameras for safety” and the safe was in our bedroom so when we watched the tapes over, he saw that he tried to kiss me and I was freaking out and started crying and was like no baby I swear I stopped him I was afraid to tell you. and all that good stuff. He believed me and didn’t get angry he just kinda ignored it like it didn’t happen and boom, that first part of my dream ended.
The second part (which is the weirdest part of all) Jim and I are in the same beach house and me and christy (our neighbor) stayed friends. And we invited her and nate(her husband) and their kids to come stay for the weekend and play at the beach and stuff. so they came up and we were having a good time and then nate was like I got to run to work real quick I’ll be back. and then their kids came and they were all muddy and dirty from the beach so christy was like im going to go clean them off so she went in the shower and started cleaning them and she was like “Jim or lyndsey I need your help real quick” so I went in there and there was like this big rock in the bathtub that her kids brought in and Jim was like okay well ill get it since It’s really heavy. I said okay and left I was sitting in the family room watching tv and about an hour goes by, I was like Whats taking so long. So I go into the bathroom and Jim is in the shower with christy not having sex, but they were both naked and they were just kissing but like a real passionate kissing like not like the “I just want sex kiss” but real kissing like passionate making out. I started freaking out and dragged her out of the bathrrom by her hair and I was screaming and Jim were telling me to calm down it wasn’t that big of a deal and she was crying so I was like let’s just see how nate feels about this. So I called him at work and told him and he was so mad and he came back to our house and we were both standing there like this is some bullshit. Jim had this careless expression on his face and christy was still crying. I so I looked at nate and was like well it looks like im getting a divorce and he was like me too, so I looked at Jim and I was like guess we are both single now and he just stood there like he didn’t care. so nate turned to me and said “since we are both single we might as well get together” I was like fine I don’t care. and christy was like “you can’t do this to me” and I kicked her out of my house and then nate kicked Jim out. you still had the careless expression on your face the entire time.
What does it mean? I mean me and husband do have some jealousy issues from time to time, but we are newly married (2 years) I can’t understand why I would still be dreaming like this.